HAVING A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP
We get afraid when a relationship gets too good so we end up messing it up. Yet beyond the fear, beyond the mess-up, beyond all our layers and all the walls we put up, we truly want our relationships to work, to be happy, to evolve and be successful.
Here am going to show you tips of how your successful your relationship can be not minding the ups & down things go in your relationship before now.
1. BE DEPENDABLE
Dependability in relationships is perhaps the most important factor, and also the most neglected one. We all have been in situations where we have suffered because of lack of dependability on someone, somewhere. At the same time we all have been in situations where we too have not been dependable in relationships, both professional and personal. No one likes to be in a position where they are considered untrustworthy. Yet, I firmly believe, we all have been there and done that.
2. ALWAYS DEFEND THEM IN FRONT OF OTHER PEOPLE
Yes we need know this and sometimes we tend to forget this but defending your spouse in front of other people keeps the relationship going and it also stops the relationship from failing. You can tease them as much as you want, but whenever anyone gangs up on him/her, always be the first to defend them. Remember you are a team in front of the rest of the world
3. CHOOSE YOUR WORDS CAREFULLY
Most times we get angry, mad to say things we shouldn’t say not minding their feeling when you feel you’re close to saying things you should never say to your loved one, just take a step back. If you’ve already said something that you know was wrong, apologize the second you realize it and make sure your partner understand that it’s not how you actually feel, but that you were mad and just blurted out something stupid.
4. SLEEP ON IT
There is always a saying that says we don’t go to bed angry, but in most cases and sometimes it is necessary to sleep on it to make the relationship work before you say things that would upset you both Whether you realize it or not, the success of your relationship depends on little things just as much as the big things and following these simple steps will not only insure the success of your relationship,but will also support you in having a happier and more thriving life every single day.
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