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TIPS OF BECOMING SUCCESSFUL IN LIFE Wondering of how to get through that unpleasant state of yours that gets you thinking and worried to becoming successful  here are some tips that would help you move from that unpleasant state of yours in Achieving your dreams. 1. Think big. From Michelangelo Buonarroti, Great Renaissance Artist:  “The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.” 2.Find what you love to do and do it. From Oprah Winfrey, Media Mogul:  “You know you are on the road to success if you would do your job and not be paid for it.” 3. Learn how to balance life. From Phil Knight, CEO of Nike Inc.:  “There is an immutable conflict at work in life and in business, a constant battle between peace and chaos. Neither can be mastered, but both can be influenced. How you go about th...

FIRST WE NEED KNOW WHAT THE TRAITS TO BEEN SUCCESSFUL ARE.... 1. Reaching out to stakeholders 2. Being highly adaptable to change 3. Being reliable and predictable 4. Making fast decisions Not only do these traits correlate with emotional intelligence (EQ), but anyone can improve them to become more effective leaders, whether you’re in the C-suite or on your way. It’s all about awareness. When are you leading well and why? When are you not leading well and why? And how can you hone these four traits? But let’s start small. You don’t need to improve all four traits at once. Pick the one trait that will be the real game changer for you as a leader. Maybe you’d like to be more reliable and predictable. In this case, recognize how you are showing up when you’re stressed out. Is this how you want to show up? How often are you showing up like this? How do people respond to you? Or maybe you’d like to improve your decision-making. What would happen if you start...

   Eagle leadership: The principle of focus Eagle eye leadership: What do you focus on and prioritize as the leader of your business? Activity is not the same as productivity. Motion does not always signify progress. Activity is not necessarily accomplishment. Diligence is not necessarily effectiveness. Faithfulness is never the same as fruitfulness. Not all efforts bring about results. There is a world of difference between getting things done (busy) and getting results (progress). Telling the difference is what this article is all about. Knowing the difference is what really makes some leaders more successful than others. Making a to-do list for your entire task will give you a boost on your productivity. You will be able to focus on one task, plus, it will help you organize from the least priority up to the top priority. Great leaders are not a repository of everything or anything; they are repositories of only what matters. They don’t see everything, they o...

TODAY WE WOULD BE LOOKING AT THE PRINCIPLES OF SUCCESS THROUGH THE LIFE OF AN EAGLE WHICH ARE BIRDS OF LIGHT. Eagles are birds of light.they hunt by day, they fly by day and they feed by day. They are truly creature of light. Eagles are remarkably clean birds, preferring to kill their own prey which usually consist of fish, rabbits, squirrels, and other small game.in fact these birds in their natural settings have little appetite for decaying and rotting flesh that attracts crows, vultures and other scavengers. Eagles seems to have a high standards. They want the best in life, not the rubbish....so if you want to fly with the eagles you must strive for the very best. There must be a commitment to excellence. Those who desire to soar with the eagles should love excellence and shun mediocrity. Excellence is not achieved by accident. what we aim at determine what we will become and, while we may not always make our goals, our goals will always make us. To aim at...

When I looked back on my days as an athlete, I understood what was different. I remembered what (or who) made me push myself even when I didn’t want to. The difference was, as an athlete, I had structured days and a coach to report to. Structure keeps us focused and a coach keeps pushing and challenging us. Thankfully I passed this stage and I founded  an online coaching service that helps people achieve their goals. I decided to collect the lessons I’ve learned along the way and to share them with others, like you, striving to better themselves. 1. Focus on commitment, not motivation. Just how committed are you to your goal? How important is it for you, and what are you willing to sacrifice in order to achieve it? If you find yourself fully committed, motivation will follow. Here’s how to focus on commitment. 2. Seek knowledge, not results. If you focus on the excitement of discovery, improving, exploring and experimenting, your motivation will always be fueled. ...

IT TAKES MORE THAN LOVE FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO WORK Although love is the foundation of any happy romantic relationship, love is not enough. In order to have a healthy relationship, both parties have to be willing to work on it. Below you’ll find 18 ways to keep your relationship strong. 1. Practice acceptance and appreciation. In his book, “How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving”, David Richo explains that two of the keys to mindful loving are acceptance and appreciation. Here’s a quote from Richo that expresses this idea: “In a true you-and-I relationship, we are present mindfully, non-intrusively, the way we are present with things in nature. We do not tell a birch tree it should be more like an elm. We face it with no agenda, only appreciation . . .” 2. Recognize that all relationships have their ups and downs. Just as you can’t expect to be happy all the time, you shouldn’t expect your relationship to be at a continuous high. When you ma...

No matter how old you are, where you’re from or what you do for a living, we all share something in common—a desire to be successful. Each person’s definition of success is different, however, as some may define success as being a loving and faithful spouse or a caring and responsible parent, while most people would equate success with wealth, fame, and power. We all want to achieve success so we could live a comfortable life—have financial freedom, drive a nice car, and live in a beautiful house. However, although success can be achieved, it does not come easy. Here are some tips from some of the world renowned people 1. Focus on commitment , not motivation . Just how committed are you to your goal? How important is it for you, and what are you willing to sacrifice in order to achieve it? If you find yourself fully committed, motivation will follow. Here’s how to focus on commitment. 2. Seek knowledge , not results . If you focus on the excitement of discovery...

Famous people who failed before success 1 –  Marilyn Monroe had a rough upbringing and was placed in several foster homes growing up. Later she was considered a failed model with little hopes for success. Her modeling agents told her she would never make it as a model, and that she should consider being a secretary. Despite being told she was a failure most her life she went on to pursue her dreams and became a national success. Marilyn Monroe’s character as a dumb blonde was an act, that overshadowed her real beauty inside. She was a diamond in the rough. Underneath all the glamor was a little orphan girl who was lonely, smart, and full of life, that wanted to express who she really was under the makeup. In the end was a tragic death of a women who succeeded against all odds, and needed something money can’t buy. She needed to be loved for who she really was . “ Someone said to me, If fifty percent of the experts in Hollywood said you had no talent and should gi...

next time you feel like giving up on your dreams because great things never happen to people like you, take a look at these stories of successful people who hit rock bottom before soaring to the top of their game. Walt Disney. Walt Disney was fired from his first job because he was told that he lacked imagination. He also had to endure numerous difficulties and challenges while setting up his dream business and ending up with bankruptcy even. He kept up with his persistence. Today, his entire set-up – including moves, merchandise and theme parks – is worth billions. “To some people, I am kind of a Merlin who takes lots of crazy chances, but rarely makes mistakes. I’ve made some bad ones, but, fortunately, the successes have come along fast enough to cover up the mistakes. When you go to bat as many times as I do, you’re bound to get a good average.” – Walt Disney Christopher Reeve. It is ironic that the actor who played Superman famously would eventually become ...