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Human beings want to be emotionally, physically, etc. close to each other, but in a way or the other are not, due to how toxic the relationship has turned out to be, today we are going to be looking at what toxic relationship is, types and also causes of a toxic relationship. By definition, a toxic relationship is a relationship characterized by behaviors on the part of the toxic partner that are emotionally and, not infrequently, physically damaging to their partner. While a healthy relationship contributes to our self-esteem and emotional energy, a toxic relationship damages self-esteem and drains energy. A healthy relationship involves mutual caring, respect, and compassion, an interest in our partner’s welfare and growth, an ability to share control and decision-making, in short, a shared desire for each other’s happiness. A healthy relationship is a safe relationship, a relationship where we can be ourselves without fear, a place where we feel comfortable and ...

A lmost all of us are now affected by COVID-19 and the emergency measures being taken to slow its transmission. We’re stocking up on essential items. Schools across the country are closed, leaving us to homeschool our kids. Claustrophobia is settling in as theaters, stores, restaurants and small businesses shutter their doors. Financial concerns abound as thousands are losing hours at work or being laid off entirely, plus the stock market is fluctuating wildly. And beneath it all lurks the ominous concern: what if I or my loved ones get sick? To add to this already heavy list of worries, many of us aren’t used to spending so much time at home every day with our partner, even when a crisis isn’t in the mix. Love is 24/7, but usually our days together are not. Cabin fever may not be viral, but it is real: if we don’t take proactive steps to keep our relationships healthy, they could buckle under the pressure.  Here are some actionable tips that you can begin using today to help y...

Why do men cheat? C heating in our today's society has been the number one factor that affects and create damages to various relationships which aren't seen as a healthy way of making a relationship grow, keeping the trust intact in that relationship mind you its been said that "Behind every untrusting girl, is a BOY who lied, cheated, and broke his promises to her". Before taking any action in your relationship you need to ask yourself of the reasons why they cheat.  Today we would look at those reasons why men cheat. HE IS IMMATURE. SIGNS OF IMMATURITY... Yes as it is well-stated the lack of maturity makes a man cheat it's not too surprising that a man's low level of maturity is an underlying factor behind being unfaithful since immature men often lack the sophistication, empathy, and sense of responsibility that would inhibit them from cheating on their partner. After all, in order for a relationship to be healthy, happy, and have long-lastin...

Nobody ever said going to college was easy; it’s expensive, time consuming, and mentally taxing. Maybe that’s the reason that, in 2014,2017,2018.. nearly 41% of the students who started their freshman year at a 4-year university ended up dropping out before graduation. While there are certainly other factors that can and will bother today’s college students, here are 25 Student Frustrations That You Probably Never Thought About, as well as some handy tricks that might help to deal with them. Picking a Ma jor College students are under a lot of pressure to figure out what they plan on doing with their lives, and a big part of that decision is based on which major they pick in college. Remember that college is a time to experiment and try out new things; you don’t have to decide on a major until the end of your sophomore year, and switching majors is a lot less difficult than it sounds. The most important thing is to find something you are passionate about. You ...

“ What frustrates you most about life?” The frustrations people submitted ranged from economic to familial, psychological to political. They were all universal human concerns — problems men and women from all walks of life struggle with every single day. Many of them focus on the same themes we explore in our live residential programs and on the podcast. Several were questions I’ve wrestled with in my own life. Inability to Pursue Goals The post that caught my eye is something we can all relate to: the challenge of committing to the plans we have for ourselves. How difficult it is to find and recognize the steps that you need to take to achieve reasonable, achievable goals. We know that it’s possible to achieve success. Many of us are willing and capable of applying ourselves, but the path to those goals, and the people, assets, and resources available to help us are obfuscated. Everyone — guy or gal, old or young, successful or just starting out...

This is one of the most common mistakes. It is also the least effective if you want to try to win back your love. We think that if we tell them how much we miss them, or that we are nothing without them, something will click inside of their hearts and we will get the relationship back. But actually the opposite happens. Begging will only make them lose respect for us. Who’s going to value someone who isn’t able to survive on their own? How can we feel love for someone who doesn’t seem to love himself very much? It’s like trying to get a job but the only thing you can tell the hiring manager is that they should give you the job because you need it. This type of behavior usually overwhelms the other person. Your partner might start to feel guilty. They might start to see you as unnecessary pressure in their lives. If you do get them to pity you, it might just be because they feel guilty. But in that case, you will have lost them fore...

In today's romantic relationship you'll find out that most relationship lacks that special part/something  that makes them different from all other relationships and also its a little thing that matters or count in a successful relationship. According to psychologists who have both researched and written about the challenges of romantic relationships, these little displays of interest and affection can be more important than all the “active listening” and trust games in the world. HERE ARE TIPS TO KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY AND SUCCESSFUL 1.Show some affection.  the hand on the small of the back as you brush by in the hallway, your arm around their shoulder on the sofa, your hand on their thigh when seated side-by-side, holding hands while walking down the street – give your partner a warm feeling and convey the love and affection you feel for them. The littlest touch can be as important, or even more important, than the longest night of sexual intimacy 2.Show apprecia...

This story originally appeared on Lewis Howes Some of the most successful ideas in history started with rejection. However, we don't often hear about these rocky starts of mega-successes. We mostly see the glamour, flashy money, press and smiles. But the truth is, so many entrepreneurs, thought leaders, authors, inventors and founders faced a lot of rejection before their big ideas caught on. And if they hadn’t kept going in the face of all of that, some of the best ideas today wouldn't exist. Always note that no matter how things are going with you now or no matter the rejection take all that as a stepping stone to your becoming successful or to your greater height. most successful leaders of today has faced even much more of what we are facing right now, but today they are been celebrated for keeping strong and fighting every obstacle that comes their way. No idea is too small and no idea is to big what matter is our positive tots/actions towards been rejected tha...

5 Key Traits Of Successful People I almost laughed when a new client we’ll call Jack walked into my office, sat down, and asked me what the secret to success was. I stifled my laugh when I realized he was serious, staring at me in earnest, genuinely hoping I had the answer. Here’s the truth: there’s no one single secret to success, and there’s no set path that guarantees success over failure. However, there are key traits that successful people have in common that without a doubt contribute to their ability to succeed when others seem to flounder. Here are 5 of them: 1. They’re willing to take risks. Are you willing to bet the farm that you can achieve the goal you’ve set for yourself? If not, then you’re likely holding back on something. Success comes when you’re willing jump and truly go all-in. If you’re holding back on something, you’ll likely never reach your full potential. 2. They’re willing to work. Innate qualities like intelligence and talent play a facto...

The problem is, many entrepreneurs who need capital don’t know where to look for it. That’s why the real problem is actually a lack of awareness about where and how to raise capital, and not a lack of capital. Over the last decade, more capital has been flowing into places like Africa like never before. In 2015, the continent received up to $276.5 million in startup funding. In 2016, the number rose to $366.8 million . And these numbers are just for tech startups alone. Over the long term, I really don’t see anything that would stop these capital flows from rising higher and higher as the years go by. In this article, I dispel the myth of capital by showing you several examples of African entrepreneurs who have successfully raised funding to start, grow and expand their businesses. I don’t just want to give you the facts. Facts can be boring, especially when you’re desperately looking for capital. Instead, I’ll be sharing the success stories that prove just how possible it ...