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  Research has proven that smartphones has its negative effect on most relationships, aside from the positive aspect of it but lately it has really affected most relationship which could either destroy the relationship or complicate issues in the relationship. Even in our day to day life’s smartphone has also contributed to sleep issues and depression, it can also help you stay in touch with family and friends worldwide meet partners online and also help you stay connected with your business associates all these either affect our life or make it better but on the other hand one primary downsides is their addictive nature it has in affecting our relationship. We’ll be looking at various ways by which smartphone has affected relationships 1. when Your phone is ALWAYS on your mind. Some of the most private moments couples have are in bed, yet checking your phone first thing when you wake up can definitely feel like an involuntary impulse. “There are actually a few things abou...

Sometimes most women wonder what it takes to really understand their man and look for ways of how they can go to fully understand them, most time when they are in the midst of their friends or in the midst of their loved ones you'll hear them say "Honestly i don't understand him anymore", "Oh he has really changed alot", sometimes they wish they knew what's going through his head or they noticed the sudden change in their partners attitude or character and it makes them want to know what he really wants or how he really feels. However the case maybe the truth remains both men and women are from the same planet and man is also an individual with hopes and needs.and for you to understand him much better, listed below are tips to guide you in understanding your man. 1. understand that your man sometimes might be depressed, help him get out of it. Yes as depressed as your man may be at that time it could really be the major reason why you no longer understan...

Lots of headache, frustration, unnecessary quarrel would be avoided if men will learn to understand women. Living with a woman is not difficult at all, ignorance, immaturity and unrealistic expectations makes a man see his precious fiancee/ wife as a devil, demon,or witch! Here are things women do that make them appear difficult but they are not, you just need to understand them. 1. WOMEN GET IRRITATED AND ANGRY BEFORE THEIR MENSTRUATION and may even be screaming, yelling or throwing things at you. You are not her problem, her cycle is. It is immaturity to bicker with her, shout her down or call her names because her system is disorganized. Immature men are huge disaster in relationships. Calm down. Respond to her calmly. Hold her hand or put your arms around her. Hug her a lot. Women need plenty of it during this period (physical touch is limited to the married). 2. SHE OFTEN GETS HORNY: Her cycle is also responsible; sometimes emotional upsurge. If you ...

Human beings want to be emotionally, physically, etc. close to each other, but in a way or the other are not, due to how toxic the relationship has turned out to be, today we are going to be looking at what toxic relationship is, types and also causes of a toxic relationship. By definition, a toxic relationship is a relationship characterized by behaviors on the part of the toxic partner that are emotionally and, not infrequently, physically damaging to their partner. While a healthy relationship contributes to our self-esteem and emotional energy, a toxic relationship damages self-esteem and drains energy. A healthy relationship involves mutual caring, respect, and compassion, an interest in our partner’s welfare and growth, an ability to share control and decision-making, in short, a shared desire for each other’s happiness. A healthy relationship is a safe relationship, a relationship where we can be ourselves without fear, a place where we feel comfortable and ...

A lmost all of us are now affected by COVID-19 and the emergency measures being taken to slow its transmission. We’re stocking up on essential items. Schools across the country are closed, leaving us to homeschool our kids. Claustrophobia is settling in as theaters, stores, restaurants and small businesses shutter their doors. Financial concerns abound as thousands are losing hours at work or being laid off entirely, plus the stock market is fluctuating wildly. And beneath it all lurks the ominous concern: what if I or my loved ones get sick? To add to this already heavy list of worries, many of us aren’t used to spending so much time at home every day with our partner, even when a crisis isn’t in the mix. Love is 24/7, but usually our days together are not. Cabin fever may not be viral, but it is real: if we don’t take proactive steps to keep our relationships healthy, they could buckle under the pressure.  Here are some actionable tips that you can begin using today to help y...

Why do men cheat? C heating in our today's society has been the number one factor that affects and create damages to various relationships which aren't seen as a healthy way of making a relationship grow, keeping the trust intact in that relationship mind you its been said that "Behind every untrusting girl, is a BOY who lied, cheated, and broke his promises to her". Before taking any action in your relationship you need to ask yourself of the reasons why they cheat.  Today we would look at those reasons why men cheat. HE IS IMMATURE. SIGNS OF IMMATURITY... Yes as it is well-stated the lack of maturity makes a man cheat it's not too surprising that a man's low level of maturity is an underlying factor behind being unfaithful since immature men often lack the sophistication, empathy, and sense of responsibility that would inhibit them from cheating on their partner. After all, in order for a relationship to be healthy, happy, and have long-lastin...

Nobody ever said going to college was easy; it’s expensive, time consuming, and mentally taxing. Maybe that’s the reason that, in 2014,2017,2018.. nearly 41% of the students who started their freshman year at a 4-year university ended up dropping out before graduation. While there are certainly other factors that can and will bother today’s college students, here are 25 Student Frustrations That You Probably Never Thought About, as well as some handy tricks that might help to deal with them. Picking a Ma jor College students are under a lot of pressure to figure out what they plan on doing with their lives, and a big part of that decision is based on which major they pick in college. Remember that college is a time to experiment and try out new things; you don’t have to decide on a major until the end of your sophomore year, and switching majors is a lot less difficult than it sounds. The most important thing is to find something you are passionate about. You ...

“ What frustrates you most about life?” The frustrations people submitted ranged from economic to familial, psychological to political. They were all universal human concerns — problems men and women from all walks of life struggle with every single day. Many of them focus on the same themes we explore in our live residential programs and on the podcast. Several were questions I’ve wrestled with in my own life. Inability to Pursue Goals The post that caught my eye is something we can all relate to: the challenge of committing to the plans we have for ourselves. How difficult it is to find and recognize the steps that you need to take to achieve reasonable, achievable goals. We know that it’s possible to achieve success. Many of us are willing and capable of applying ourselves, but the path to those goals, and the people, assets, and resources available to help us are obfuscated. Everyone — guy or gal, old or young, successful or just starting out...

This is one of the most common mistakes. It is also the least effective if you want to try to win back your love. We think that if we tell them how much we miss them, or that we are nothing without them, something will click inside of their hearts and we will get the relationship back. But actually the opposite happens. Begging will only make them lose respect for us. Who’s going to value someone who isn’t able to survive on their own? How can we feel love for someone who doesn’t seem to love himself very much? It’s like trying to get a job but the only thing you can tell the hiring manager is that they should give you the job because you need it. This type of behavior usually overwhelms the other person. Your partner might start to feel guilty. They might start to see you as unnecessary pressure in their lives. If you do get them to pity you, it might just be because they feel guilty. But in that case, you will have lost them fore...